oh daddy it feels so good
Real life sucks time and energy from tumblr. Imagine that. :P
I’ve been really, really busy… I’ll try to answer questions a bit more often. ;)
Old ask here, but just fyi… this ask (whoever you are) was the one that finally prompted me to really figure out what was going on. Problem solved. :)
I wish you had too… I lost some followers because of those redirects… it had been a problem for a long time but it came and went… was so hard to pin down because it depended on whether posts from that blogger were on the page you’d load or not. Sucks. :/
Thank you and happy thanksgiving to you too. :)
This is something a Dom needs to know about, and then trust him to deal with it. Some things might be different (like you wouldn’t restrain, gag, and put a hood on a girl who has some anxiety issues!), but you can certainly grow to trust him in time and with work from both of you. Be patient with yourself and trust him.
There’s no easy way to deal with this. If you think it’s possible you might have some general anxiety issues, talking with a mental health professional might be a very good idea… not even so much in terms of fun sexy-time, but thinking about your general satisfaction and happiness with life.
I don’t post many videos… not even for anons who ask 3-4 times over several days. :P
I post good ones when I run into them, but that’s not very often.
Help you? Ok, here’s what you need to hear: relax. Don’t worry. Very, very, very few girls cum from sex their first time… there’s a lot of “mechanical” stuff to think about/worry about, and you’re likely to be a little tense your first time. Just talk to him about it and if you don’t cum, don’t worry about it.
(Some people would say fake it. I would strongly suggest you never fake it if you are with anyone you really care about. Once you fake it, communication is compromised and you’re on very thin ice.)
Relax. Enjoy. Have fun.
This is the most common question I’m asked, and the answer is you can’t make someone be into this any more than you can make them gay or straight or make them like chocolate ice cream. What you can do is tell them what you like and give them opportunities to explore. You can ask them to explore and you can even suggest things to try and specific activities you might like. (In an established relationship, this would definitely be topping from the bottom, but that’s not what we’re talking about here.)
There’s a chance he just won’t be into this, no matter what, but there’s also a chance he will. Give him a chance, and see what happens. If he’s not into it and you are, then you have some decisions to make about your relationship and what is really important to you. No one can make those decisions for you… only you can.